Member Stories: Meet Clay


The whole family: Steve, Sierra, Kelley, and Clay

The territory of the unknown is one often accompanied by fear. This was the case for Kelley and Steve, when at 20 weeks into their pregnancy, they learned that there was an issue with their baby; its lower right leg had not developed correctly. The baby’s femur, the bone above the knee, was where the limb ended.

This unexpected news was difficult to process at first. They worried for the future of their child. How were they going to prepare for this? What questions did they need to ask? Suddenly, Kelley and Steve were thrown into a world they knew little about: the world of limb-loss and limb-difference.


Clayton with his dad, Steve

In addition to preparing for the arrival of their second child, Kelley, Steve, their 4-year-old daughter, Sierra, and their beloved Labradoodle, Luna, had just relocated from San Diego to Denver. Though they knew they left behind a great support system in SD, they immediately hit the ground in Denver looking for resources and connections in the limb-difference community. “We wanted to build support for our whole family, in addition to the baby,” says Steve.

Of the many resource they found in Denver, Kelley and Steve got linked with LIM359, attending events even before their baby’s birth. LIM359 helped to alleviate many of the unknowns, along with the fear and weight that came with it. Kelley and Steve quickly learned that although life looked different, and at times more challenging, it could still be a normal and fulfilling life.

Meeting other individuals with limb-loss and limb-difference was helpful for Steve and Kelley, but the most reassuring interaction was the one yet to come. On December 3, 2014, their son Clayton was born.

Now 10 months old, Clay hardly seems to be slowed down by his missing right leg. He is already crawling, tackling stairs and lifting himself to stand with the help of mom and dad (although getting back down is a bit difficult). Though he is doing quite well with just one leg, Clay is currently in the process of having his very first prosthetic limb made – just for him! “It’s crazy to look back to a year ago and think about how concerned we were, how worried.  We quickly learned that really, there isn’t too much to be concerned about. Yes, you are going to worry about your kids, we worry about our daughter too,” says Steve.

When asked what they have learned from their son, Kelley and Steve both laugh. “What haven’t we learned?” Above all, they emphasize being positive and being happy. “You can’t project your perspective onto him, because this is all he knows and he is going to figure it out. If he’s happy, we’re happy.”


Clay is quite the explorer

Not only have they been blown away by Clay, but both Kelley and Steve have been very impressed with how 4-year-old Sierra has dealt with understanding her brother’s limb-difference. “Sometimes I think she forgets he doesn’t have two legs. When people do mention the loss of his leg right off the bat, Sierra is very matter of fact. She’ll say ‘He’s my baby brother, not my baby brother with one leg.’ Sierra is so proud of her little brother.”


Clayton and Sierra

And she’s not the only one! Steve and Kelley are proud of Clay’s many accomplishments, as well as where their family as a whole is today. “If only we could have known a year ago how good things would be. If we could have seen the future, and just known, it’s all going to be okay.”


**If you or someone you care about has learned that their child will be born with limb-loss or limb-difference and would like to talk to someone, Kelley and Steve welcome you to contact them at or

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Game Changer – By Zach H

As a prosthetist, there are constantly new products coming out that I have to evaluate and decide if this is better or different in any way.  I get somewhat amused at the names that manufactures call their feet – the Panthera, the Triton, the Truper, the Renegade, Elation… A new one that I recently encountered is called the “Game Changer.”


Amy Purdy, from Dancing with the Stars, was in our office to see a 4-year-old boy named Beau get his new running feet.  Beau has bilateral through ankle (Boyd) amputations and, as most people know, Amy has bilateral below-knee amputations.  Amy is a Paralympic snowboarder and co-founded an adaptive snowboard program at Copper Mountain called Adaptive Action Sports.  A snowboard instructor of the program went to school with Beau’s mother, which is how the connections were made between myself and Beau.


Beau is a shy kid and he LOVES Amy Purdy.  He even calls her “Amy Purdy!”  I’ve known Amy for quite a while now through our mutual participation in adaptive ski/snowboard events in Colorado.  She reached out to me when she first met Beau and asked if there were any running feet options for kids because the feet Beau was using were very basic.
Beau and his mom first came to our office when I had an adult with bilateral symes amputations come in from New Mexico to receive his new Cheetah Xplore running feet (another amusing name).  Beau was in awe as this guy ran and jumped without pain for the first time in 15 years.  We filmed some video that reached over 13K views!

At that time, we put the opportunity of running for Beau in the hands of the insurance company, which would likely not cover them.  However, I was then contacted by inventor Adam O.  Adam O is a foot manufacturer of the Game Changer foot. This is a foot designed for adults that has unique materials and user adjustability in the heel.  He let me know that he wanted to donate running feet to kids, and he was wondering if I knew of anyone who could benefit.

After thinking about Beau, I checked with his mom and they were all for it.  Her only request was that Amy Purdy be there with her blades on the first day of Beau running.  I contacted Amy and she was ecstatic.  Since Beau was comfortable in his current sockets, I got him back in and was able to duplicate them and prepare them for game day.  The pediatric running feet, I later learned, were the cutest things ever.  Adam sent me a couple different sizes, and the smallest fit in the palm of my hand!


There was a lot leading up to that day, but what ended up happening was that Adam O and his camera man flew in on the same flight as Amy and her friend (they didn’t realize they were on the same flight from LA!).  Another inspiring woman, Pam, with bilateral symes amputations was in our office a little earlier getting her new prostheses.  We scheduled Pam strategically the same day, so she could meet everyone and be part of this exciting party of people.  I had several of our residents attend for clinical support and for their own experience.  We ordered pizza for lunch, and tried to get what we needed done, even though this meant we had to interrupting the conversations everyone was so enthralled in because of all the shared experiences!

The highlight of the day for me was seeing Beau get past being shy and decide to put on his new running legs, with game changer feet, for the first time and stand up to dance with Amy Purdy.  He was so excited that he fell down giggling at one point.  It took him around 15 minutes of walking, holding hands with adults, before he was ready to walk a short distance on his own to his mom’s arms.  Shortly after that first solo journey, he was able to walk down the hall and even attempt to keep up with Amy Purdy, who was encouraging him to run.


We had some people from the hospital pop in as well.  A PT came in and offered some tips to Beau about using his arms to build momentum.  A PMR doctor came in and got to see some of the excitement and got to meet Adam and Pam.  The PR department of the hospital where our office is located got very excited and called the news station.  Unfortunately, at that point it was too late and Beau, his mom, and younger brother were so overwhelmed that it was time to leave.

This story is far from over.  I bet that in a week Beau will be running without being taught and without people encouraging him, but WITH the right equipment: Good fitting sockets and appropriate feet.

Probably the coolest thing about that day was how all these people came together and built something bigger than imaginable and bigger than I could have on my own.  I think it’s really important to seek out opportunities to put the right people together when there may be great things to happen.


LIM359 is a great example of a group of people who share a philosophy of recovery through helping each other.  The group has evolved into more than just events and people who share limb loss/limb differences in common.  It’s unexpected connections and a spirit of positive support that has made LIM359 what it is today.  

That, to me, is a true game changer!


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It’s Okay to Ask for Help – By Emily H

Being perceived as a strong and independent woman is something I have always clung to as very important in my life, even when I was a child.  I don’t know if it’s something inherent or something I acquired as a kid growing up with a disability, but regardless of the genesis, it’s something I recognize in myself.  Asking for help has historically been tough for me because I’ve always thought that if I ask for help it’s a sign of weakness, and that tarnishes my self-perception of being strong and independent.

Ironic then, that I’ve chosen triathlon as my sport of choice.  Perhaps it doesn’t immediately make sense that triathlon would force me to let go of my above-described view of myself, but let me explain . . .

In most sports, I don’t need any help or accommodations in order to participate.  These sports allow me to avoid the quandary of asking for help and weakening the perception I have of myself.  For example, if I want to participate in a 5k run, I just register like everyone else and show up on race morning.  In order for me to participate in triathlon, however, I have to contact the race director ahead of time to ensure they will be able to give me extra space in the transition area (I need a chair to sit on and space to put my sports-specific legs) and find someone (usually my husband, Zach) to act as my handler to help me get out of the water since I swim without my leg and hopping out of the water is pretty tough, especially when there are rocks at the swim exit.  Triathlon is a sport that forces me to ask for help and rely on another person to carry out my race.

Triathlon has taught me that it’s okay to ask for help, and sometimes it even makes us stronger when we do.  Without Zach’s help, I couldn’t successfully complete a triathlon.  I certainly don’t think that him having to assist me out of the water changes his perception and makes him think of me as weak or dependent.  To the contrary, I think it makes him see me as the strong and independent woman I want to be, and that’s certainly how it makes me feel about myself.

photo of Zach helping Emily during a triathlon

It’s more than just triathlon, though.  I think so many of us think that asking for help in everyday life makes us appear weak.  What we forget, however, is that everyone needs help with something at some point.  As human beings, we can feel fulfilled when we help each other.  Each one of us has different strengths and weaknesses.  It does not make us appear weak or dependent to call on others when we need to utilize their strengths because that’s what we need in a certain moment or to complete a certain task.  Let me rephrase that . . . asking for help does not mean you are weak, it just means you’re human and you accept that some else’s strength might be what you need at a specific time in your life.

I also believe that by asking for help from others, you are opening the door for those people that you’re asking to reach out to you when they feel that your strengths are what they need, whether that’s similar or completely different to the type of help you needed.  For example, while Zach helps me with triathlons, I often help him with writing projects and sorting through issues at work.

It’s really a cyclical process, and you never know who you might be helping when you ask for help.  Sure, you’re probably helping yourself, but maybe, just maybe, you’re also tangentially helping the person providing you with the help as well, whether that’s immediately or six months later when they come to you for help.

So, next time you hesitate about asking for help, remember that perhaps we can all be stronger together if we shed those misconceptions, go ahead and ask for that help you really need, and be ready to offer help to others when they need it in the future.

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Fun times horseback riding!

LIM359 members traveled 2 hours into the mountains west of Denver for horseback riding on August 22.

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Thank You for Making Hopfest 2015 a Huge Success!

Thank you to everyone who came out for Hopfest on June 14th!  We had a fantastic time and hope you did too!  Extra special thanks to Coda Brewing Co., Fante Eye and Face Centre, Bulow Orthotic & Prosthetic Solutions/Creative Technology Prosthetics, PH7 Collective, Wheelchair Getaways of CO, and Dr. Howard Belon!

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Signed Broncos ball up for grabs at Hopfest this year!

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Have you purchased your tickets to our 2nd Annual Hopfest on June 14th yet?

Join LIM359 at Coda Brewing Company on June 14th from 1-5 pm to celebrate our 2nd annual Hopfest fundraiser, benefiting LIM359.  We are 100% volunteer-based, so all funds raised go towards supporting the activities we host for our members!  Tickets are $30 in advance, $35 at the door if we have tickets remaining.  Please note that space is limited to 100 people and we anticipate selling out prior to the day of the event.

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Expect more delicious food like that pictured below from Hopfest 2014!

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